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2026 data study

America's Kinkiest States

We ranked all 50 states using adult store density, average weekly sex frequency, NSFW content searches, and kink-related search interest to find where desire, curiosity, and conversation are strongest.

Key Findings

#1

New Mexico

tops the overall ranking with a 91.65 Kink Score.

10,585

New Mexico

has the highest NSFW searches per 1K people.

11.3

Oregon

has the highest adult-store density per 1M adults.

1,291

Vermont

posts the highest kink searches per 10K people.

2.81

Alaska

leads for average sex frequency per week.

The 10 states with the highest Kink Scores

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Full state ranking

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50 states
Rank State Average Sex Frequency Per Week Adult Store Per 1M Adult Population Kink Searches Per 10K People NSFW Content Searches Per 1k People Kink Score

Methodology

The study compares all 50 states using four indicators of sexual activity, adult-oriented access, and kink-related online interest.

Weighted inputs

Adult stores per 1M adults
35%
NSFW content searches per 1K people
30%
Average sex frequency per week
25%
Kink searches per 10K people
10%

How the score was built

  • Adult-store counts come from OpenStreetMap via the Overpass API, using locations tagged as shop=erotic. Missing state markers were assigned via Nominatim reverse geocoding.
  • Average sex frequency comes from the NapLab Sex Survey, based on state-level self-reported data.
  • NSFW content and kink search volumes come from Google Keyword Planner, normalized per population.
  • Each metric was converted to a percentile rank so states could be compared on the same scale, then combined into a final Kink Score.
  • The top kink data reflects a curated seed list and should not be read as a universal representation of all preferences.

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